“To love, is a luxury
and not a basic requirement.”
What is love? How far would you go for love? Love isn’t
something that can be described, it can only be felt and desired: felt for the
person you hold the dearest to yourself and desired that you get it back, when
you find that someone you would never want to let them go but life isn’t fair
it won’t always let you keep them close, sometimes it’ll test your
determination for the other strain your relationship, twist it until it breaks.
It is at times like this one must completely and blindly trust the other
because sometimes this is all it takes. Love is hard to undo you see the thing
is the concept of un-loving someone doesn’t really exist, you can only love
someone more than you did the other person and this is how one moves on. In
reality, love isn’t static, it’s a dynamic phenomenon, different for everyone
person – different in the way it makes them feel, different in what it means
for them. It isn’t always that the feeling is mutual and this is where the
problems arise. The thing is, a majority of people spend most of their lives
running after things while some just get them served on a golden platter.
Someone who hasn’t worked in achieving it will never understand it’s true
value. Life is mean. Life is harsh. It won’t let you be happy. But sometimes
you just need to close your eyes and reflect on what you really want. Is
running after something, and sulking when you don’t get it really worth it? No,
it isn’t. This is what living is all about, you won’t always get what you want
in life, you just need to learn to be happy with the things you have. For us
love is not a basic requirement, people say love comes from the heart but that isn’t
true. In the end it’s not the person you’re scared to lose, it’s the fear of
having to live without them while always having those memories you made with
them haunt you. When a person of great significance leaves from your leaves,
they leave back a great void in your life and it is that void that makes you
sad. But voids are nothing but empty spaces, waiting to be filled and sometimes
the new things are far better than the old ones. Loving someone isn’t bad but
letting yourself get hurt in order to achieve love is. You can’t force the
other person to love you, all you can do is hope, give them the best you have
and hope that it is what they want.
PS: Do comment your thoughts, no matter good or bad.
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